Sunday 29 April 2007

Seriously... what would you do if you were in my shoe …?

Ok … I did something horrible, and I tried to fix it ... BUT … I made it worse …
In words, I slapped my best friend's girl-friend … yes... I did … and if you'll ask how or why …? I will say, it was an awful reaction, she came beside me while I was talking on the phone, trying to talk to me, I don’t know what the hell I was thinking when I slapped her … and the worst action that I continued my conversation …
Since that time I'm feeling bad, sorry, regret … all kinds of bad feelings … I tried to fix it, but I made it worse …
I want to fix this situation, but I don’t know how, she thinks that I'm bad, and I made it in purpose, these hurt me more, cus I will never hurt a lady, especially a lady like her …
For the moment, the only thing that I can do is saying I'm sorry, this is the 100 time saying I'm sorry …
So … what will you do if you were in my shoe?

8 comments:

Mais said...

sorry, but what on earth were you thinking? :la6em: looks like you were out of your mind!

try to talk to her and to your friend again and again, telling them you didn't even know how or why you did that!! enu of course you didn't mean it and ma kent mrakez when you did all this!!

i don't know what else to say but it's seriously weird! shaklak 3aneef jidan ya walad :S

i don't like to be interrupted when talking on the phone, i won't be able to rakez with both talkers at the same time, but i won't slap the person beside me for sure, i'll just ignore them :D

keep on trying...best of luck!

tamatem * said...

well u did apologize, even more than once, and u did tell her that it was unintentional... u did what u were supposed to do and more.. the rest is up to her

if she is she still hasn't forgiven u yet, it's either because she is realllly hurt (psychologically and not physically) and u need to give her a bit of time and space to absorb this, and everything will go back to normal..
OR, she is too mean and will ignore all ur attempts to fix it, and honestly in this case.. i can tell u.. she is not worth it

either way, just give it time
and good luck

Zena said...

Ohh Ziad leash heak 3malt?!! :S
and you continued the conversation!!.. OMG.. evil you!
Sorry, bas what you did it's a little bit hard to fix.
it's need time. and I think a cute gift like "flowers, perfume bottle, teddy bear..." can help.
good luck my friend and let's me know when you make up.
w lab2a t3eda once again, eh?..

ziad said...

Mais:
Oh God, I realy don't know what the hell I was thinking of, I realy was out of my mind, and this happened in a second ... for sure I didn't mean it, my friend thinks so, but it is bad reaction any way, and walla i'm not 3aneef to the limit of beating ppl. around me ... :( ... and so far i'm still trying to fix this horrible situation.

Tamatem:
thanks for having a look, actualy I did apologize several times, and yes it is clear that it was a bad reeaction, but i can understand her anger and not forgiving me, cus she is realy hurt (phychologically) cus that happened in public place in addition to her being do sensetive, and hope that time will heal her, and you can drop the idea that she is so mean, cus she is a lady, a decent lady, sensitive and calm ... and thanks for wishing me the luck.

Princess Zen@:
yeaaa ... I'm bad :(((( ,,, and deserve to be hanged ... evil me :(( ... cold blooded man ,,, bass walla ma kan 2sdi ... ya3ny mo ma32ool edrob wa7da 3n 2sed ,,, and to tell the truth ... I was surprised of my bad reaction .. it was the worst reaction ... I hope that she will forgive me ...
and khalas .. 7ader ... I will kiss the repenting ;) .. (r7 boos altooba) ... walla ma ba2a 3eeda ...
sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ...
I will let you know of what will happen ...

salam my friends

Mais said...

Ziad
sorry iza zawadta 3aleik..but i was shocked..

tamena shu beseer ma3ak

ziad said...

Hi Maioos ... lak la zawadteeha wala shee .. aslan I deserve to be hanged for this ... and you must be shocked .. cus I Am Shocked also .. don't know why and how this happened ... any way ... hope that I will over this soon ... yalla take care ... and say hi to the coward groom .. ;)

Zena said...

3ala salmtak abu zooz :)
don't feel guilty, dear every thing will go back to normal. trust me..
w yalla, cheer up

btw, I still waiting el secret elkhateer

ziad said...

Thnx Zaznoun ....
I'm almost OK ...
and for the secret ... my next post will tell it ...